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Can I Date if I Still Look at Porn?

Can I Date if I Still Look at Porn?

Everywhere I travel to speak, I encounter a similar problem. Catholic women who deeply desire marriage are still single. Many of them are either never asked out on dates at all, or they are pursued in a way that lacks intentionality and purity. This pattern seems to...
When the Feelings Disappear

When the Feelings Disappear

A young couple recently asked me what it might mean if their dating relationship lacked the feeling of being in love. Was it a sure sign that they were not meant to be together? What should they do? I will speak, as I always do, from my own personal experience. I have...
How Do You Know When You Have Met the One?

How Do You Know When You Have Met the One?

It was 6th August 2014. I was sitting in Sr Moira De Bono’s Marriage and Sexuality class at Notre Dame University. My phone buzzed in my pocket. It was a random number, so I hit the silence button and put the phone back in my pocket.   At the next break, I...