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Do I Have to Tell Them?

Do I Have to Tell Them?

Parents are usually very nervous about talking with their children about sex. Some parents have even invited me to have “the sex talk” with their children for them because they don’t want to do it, or think they will do it poorly.   Some parents are of the...
Love the Person, Not Just Their Attributes

Love the Person, Not Just Their Attributes

When human beings experience strong sexual desire or become aware of the power of the sexual urge within, it is important to distinguish whether that desire is oriented toward a person or merely a physical attribute of a person.  Karol Wojtyla has firm words against...
“I Am Only Human”

“I Am Only Human”

I am sure that you have heard somebody say – or maybe you have said – “I am only Human” to excuse themselves from judgment after falling into sexual sin or struggling with repeated sin.  I find this an odd answer, because it presupposes that being human...
Can I Date if I Still Look at Porn?

Can I Date if I Still Look at Porn?

Everywhere I travel to speak, I encounter a similar problem. Catholic women who deeply desire marriage are still single. Many of them are either never asked out on dates at all, or they are pursued in a way that lacks intentionality and purity. This pattern seems to...