


Men Have Sexual Urges They Need to Satisfy
After a chastity talk I gave to an all-girls high school, one of the senior students shared that her boyfriend told her he has sexual urges that he “needs” satisfied. He said that since he is unable to say no to them, he needs her to do sexual stuff with him to...
Is Virginity Really Something You Lose?
After speaking at a youth conference some time ago, a young man asked me how old I was when I lost my virginity. I explained that when I got married, I did not “lose my virginity” like one loses their keys, but rather, gave my virginity as a gift to my wife. On the...
Love the Person, Not Just Their Attributes
When human beings experience strong sexual desire or become aware of the power of the sexual urge within, it is important to distinguish whether that desire is oriented toward a person or merely a physical attribute of a person. Karol Wojtyla has firm words against...
“I Am Only Human”
I am sure that you have heard somebody say, “I am only Human,” as if to excuse themselves from judgement after making a mistake. Isn’t this a strange way to respond? As though being human meant they had no choice or possibility of better action? This is the exact...
To Love is to be Vulnerable
The love you desire is on the other side of being vulnerable and honest about your weaknesses.