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What’s the Spot?

What’s the Spot?

I meet a lot of faithful, well-meaning couples frustrated by going “too far”. Catholic dating was not meant to be a series of date nights followed by feelings of guilt and a confession the following day! But sadly, this is the common experience for many. They drive...
Community: Antidote for Loneliness

Community: Antidote for Loneliness

A couple of years ago, I attended a men’s retreat facilitated by menALIVE. MenALIVE was founded by Robert Falzon, a Maltese warrior for Jesus who felt called to inspire men to be more active in their faith and in the Church. He started this ministry more than twenty...
When You Are Not God

When You Are Not God

A man once shared with me that he would turn to pornography when he felt down and disappointed with himself. But the trigger for his feeling this way was unclear. He could not work out what he was down about or why he was disappointed with himself. I pressed him for...
St John Paul II

St John Paul II

I love JPII. He changed my life. I cry every time I see a video of him speaking. A few days ago, I knelt down to begin my morning prayer and opened my phone to see a photo message from a friend who had just arrived on a pilgrimage and was praying at JPII’s tomb...
Wasted Time?

Wasted Time?

Over the past few years, the Lord has been gently exposing attitudes and mindsets I possess that are contrary to living a fully Christian life. This has been a bittersweet experience. Bitter because I am proud and don’t like realising I am or have been wrong; sweet...
Keep Your Eyes Fixed on Jesus

Keep Your Eyes Fixed on Jesus

My wise wife recently recommended a book to me. It is called To Whom Shall We Go by Cardinal Timothy Dolan. It’s one of her favourites. The book is a series of reflections on key events and encounters between St Peter and Jesus in the Gospels. He is a weak man who, at...