Is Virginity Really Something You Lose?

Is Virginity Really Something You Lose?

After speaking at a youth conference some time ago, a young man asked me how old I was when I lost my virginity. I explained that when I got married, I did not “lose my virginity” like one loses their keys, but rather, gave my virginity as a gift to my wife. On the...
Is it Wrong to be Attracted to Multiple Men at Once?

Is it Wrong to be Attracted to Multiple Men at Once?

After a talk I once gave, a young woman approached me to ask this question. She was a YMT (Youth Mission Team) missionary, travelling Australia in a van with two other girls and three guys. She shared that the guys were very virtuous, prayerful and passionate about...
Do I Have to Tell Them?

Do I Have to Tell Them?

Parents are usually very nervous about talking with their children about God’s plan for sex. I have even been invited by some parents to have “the sex talk” with their children for them because they either don’t want to or don’t think it is their duty. They...
Love the Person, Not Just Their Attributes

Love the Person, Not Just Their Attributes

When human beings experience strong sexual desire or become aware of the power of the sexual urge within, it is important to distinguish whether that desire is oriented toward a person or merely a physical attribute of a person.  Karol Wojtyla has firm words against...